Wednesday Night May 6, 2026

06
May

You Can’t Fake Real Change

Scriptures: Hebrews 10, 2 Corinthians 7, Romans 6, Ephesians 4


Are You Actually Your Own Biggest Obstacle?

Hebrews 10 forces us to confront an uncomfortable possibility:

Are you your own problem?

Many people blame circumstances…
Blame others…
Blame stress…
Blame opportunity…

But sometimes the greatest obstacle to your spiritual growth is you.

So ask yourself honestly:
Is your personality leading you away from Christ?

Because natural tendencies, unchecked emotions, pride, stubbornness, and selfishness can all quietly become barriers between you and obedience.


Good Works Are Bigger Than Professional Success

Here’s a correction many people need:

Doing good at your job is NOT the definition of good works.

Professional competence is valuable—but spiritual fruit is different.

Godly good works involve:

  • Service
  • Sacrifice
  • Obedience
  • Witness
  • Love
  • Repentance

And another dangerous habit must be addressed:

Don’t pretend that you’ve prayed about things that you haven’t.

False spirituality does not produce real transformation.


Around Church vs. Around Christ

This is one of the most sobering truths:

Just because you are around church doesn’t mean you are around Christ.

Attendance is not intimacy.
Routine is not relationship.

And eventually:

This Gospel “stuff” — it’s going to get personal.

God will confront your habits.
Your motives.
Your excuses.
Your hidden sin.


Feeling Bad Isn’t Enough

2 Corinthians 7 makes repentance clear:

If you feel bad about the sin you’ve committed, then DO SOMETHING! Don’t just whine about it.

Conviction should lead to action.

So ask yourself:
What plan do you have to make yourself better?

Not vague intentions.
Not emotional regret.
A real plan.


Your Relationships Reflect Your Walk

Your relationship with God cannot be separated from how you treat others.

Your relationship with God is deeply related to your relationship with other people.

And because of that:

Your testimony matters.

People are not only hearing what you say—they are evaluating whether your life supports it.

Sometimes you are not receivable because you are not believable.


Has the Old You Really Died?

Romans 6 and Ephesians 4 ask a life-altering question:

What was the old you like? Or have you not really changed?

If salvation has truly occurred, then transformation should be visible.

  • Old anger
  • Old selfishness
  • Old habits
  • Old excuses
  • Old thinking

The “old man” should not still be in charge.


Challenge

  • Honestly examine whether you are creating your own spiritual obstacles.
  • Separate worldly success from godly good works.
  • Stop pretending in your prayer life.
  • Move from guilt to repentance.
  • Build a real plan for spiritual growth.
  • Strengthen both your testimony and your relationships.
  • Evaluate whether the old you is truly gone.